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These rules apply to weekly munches and all official Naughties events. Updated November 4, 2025.
Read the current FetLife rules post01Admission & attire +
Events are 21+ unless a special event states otherwise. Everyone must show valid ID to club security and provide the password from the current event post. Street-legal attire is required to the door; fetish gear and kinky dress are permitted inside, with nipples and genitals covered.
02Consent & conduct +
Clear consent is required before any physical contact, play, or non-physical interaction. Ask before casual touch, including hugs, head pats, or a hand on someone's back. Soliciting sex or any pay-for-play activity is prohibited.
03Privacy & photography +
Do not disclose personal details about attendees. Photography, livestreaming, video chat, and recording are generally prohibited except in the designated brick-wall area by the bar, and only with the consent of everyone pictured.
04Safety & substances +
Weapons and illegal drugs are not permitted at events or on venue property. Guests who appear intoxicated or impaired may be refused entry or asked to leave. Professional venue security may perform checks at the door.
05Stage play +
All play-related activity must follow the separately posted Stage Play Rules. Light play is only permitted on stage and must follow current event guidelines and Dungeon Monitor instructions.